Our identity is a choice. If we don't actively take part in that choice, then outside factors will decide on an identity for us. In the previous piece, “Identity is a choice (Part 1)”, I spoke about the different aspects of identity, what it is, how it's formed, and how I came to create mine. In its closing, I mentioned that an identity should be made up of good and strong qualities. Here, I delve deeper into what I mean by this.

Our identity is shaped by how we see ourselves, even if we aren't fully aware of it. This self-perception sets us on a particular life path. The saying "birds of a feather flock together" illustrates how people with similar interests tend to come together. For instance, if you see yourself as a sports fan, you typically seek the company of other sports fans.