In movies and songs, we often hear of "listen to your heart". However, this can be misleading because the heart is our center of emotions. Emotions are changeable and can lead us astray. Instead, it's wiser to seek sound, well-rounded advice that serves a greater purpose beyond personal desires.

When we first become aware of the world around us at ages three and four, we take it for granted that our parents have everything under control. The idea that our parents might have shortcomings or struggles is the farthest thing from our minds. Even in households with turmoil, children of this age have an unwavering trust that their parents know best and will always act in their best interest.